Fall in Seoul


I love having an actual autumn (much fancier than fall)! The colors are beautiful and today’s weather was chilly and great for walking outside. My students and I journaled outside and others did a leaf rub and described the season. Middle school students are great! They still love doing fun stuff and we have a great time in class. I love seeing their confidence grow.

Julianna’s class also went out to gather leaves for science. It was too pretty to stay indoors.


Leaf collecting fun!

Happy Autumn from Seoul, y’all!

Reaching Reluctant Writers


My dear, smart friend helps me be a better writer/teacher/professional. Despite what my picture says! We always have fun in Writer’s Workshop–you should try it, too!

Originally posted on prairielearning:

How do we inspire kids to be writers when they just don’t want to? This is the case for lots of kids. English Language Learners, perfectionists, those with insufficient experience or knowledge of a subject, those who prefer to tell stories rather than write them… the list is endless. Some kids (and adults) just don’t want to write.

Teachers can easily Google strategies to help reluctant writers- and find a plethora of resources to guide their lessons. The surest way to inspire writers is to be one… and share your ideas, your struggles, your stories. When I show a student the way I have used a certain strategy, in my own notebook, it shows them that I am in this with them- not teacher to student… but writer to writer. That is deep.

My Writer's Notebook. I need to fancy it up with pictures and ideas for stories! My Writer’s Notebook. I need to fancy it up with pictures and ideas for stories!

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Birthday Prayer

Sean gave me a few books that I LOVE for my birthday.  I want to share one of the prayers that was in the Celtic Prayers From Jona. This was the one from my actual birthday, and it resonated with me so I wanted to share it.

 O Christ of the road

of the wounded

O Christ of the tears

of the broken

In me and with me

the needs of the world

Grant me my prayers

of loving and hoping

Grant me my prayers

of yearning and healing.

You are behind me and before me, O God. You lay your hand upon me.

(Ps 139:5)

Holding Space

City life has been quite the adjustment. Seoul is busy, noisy, crowded with parks and green space mixed in. There is always something to do/go see/visit.  I’ve found that I have to guard my time or I’m going, going, going all the time. This is completely the same as life in the states. While I’ve had to adjust to life in a new country, life is the same everywhere we are. Family, work, rest….it’s always a balancing act. My goal this year, being our first year living as expats, is to soak in as much of the culture as possible while also making sure there is space for rest. 

Also, I need to let other people be. Be themselves. Be authentic without my opinion involved. I believe this is referred to as holding space for people. Just letting people be people. That includes my family. No one should wait for my opinion or need it to move forward. So, I’ll hold space for them, too. And honestly, I hope you will do the same for me.

This Is What I Do

I’m a support teacher so I get to work with students one on one or in very small groups. It’s so fun to help them learn, understand English and believe in themselves. First quarter is a wrap and I’m looking forward to implementing a few more strategies to teach my students. New curriculum, just finished a great conference, ideas rolling around in my brain!

A bonus is discipling middle schoolers! Some don’t profess Christianity but that’s ok. God’s love is for everyone. We have a Week Without Walls coming up soon; I can’t wait to spend some time with the 6th graders away from school. Of course, my own 6th grader will be there, too!

Life in Seoul….still an adjustment but always a adventure! 


Anniversary Shoutout

18 years! Babies, moves, jobs, rough patches, high points, more rough years, easy times, questioning, loss, joy, grief, love. Everything at different times and all together. At the same time. Seperately and always together. You can love and be sad, grieve and be joyful, sail through life and wonder why. The human heart is capable of so much. 

Lord, make me an instrument of Thy peace;

where there is hatred, let me sow love;

where there is injury, pardon;

where there is doubt, faith;

where there is despair, hope;

where there is darkness, light;

and where there is sadness, joy.

O Divine Master,

grant that I may not so much seek to be consoled as to console;

to be understood, as to understand;

to be loved, as to love;

for it is in giving that we receive,

it is in pardoning that we are pardoned,

and it is in dying that we are born to eternal life.


st. francis of assisi – 13th century

Remind me to always be mindful of my beautiful, complicated life. Happy anniversary, my love.

Fall in Seoul

I love fall! It’s cool in Korea so that means no more tank tops for this southern girl.  But here, that means pull out all of your big coats and bundle up.  It’s just fall, y’all, not winter. The leaves are changing and it’s really beautiful here.  My dear hubby bought me a little pumpkin and my dear friends (here and in Mississippi) bought me some fall decorations. Now I can decorate! Pumpkins, leaves and well, that’s about it. Decorating for fall is not high on Korea’s list. Maybe I could carve a sweet potato.

Hanging pumpkins!

Hanging pumpkins!

My brain is on overload from a conference I’m attending.  Report cards come out soon and we’re about to start the 2nd quarter. This school year is going by fast! Jacob has asked every day what we’re doing for Halloween.  Sad to say, probably a bit fat nothing. I’ll find him some candy so he’ll be happy.  Julianna loves kindergarten but is exhausted everyday. She has more good days than bad but she’s still adjusting.  It’s hard for a little Korean girl! The boys are doing their thing and still enjoying school.  IMG_2039

Here is my challenge to you:  learn about trauma in kids.  Learn about transition with adoption.  Read about how trauma affects learning.  For the sake of all the kids who didn’t get a fair start, please do it.  Nothing hurts a mama’s heart more than when their baby is not understood.  And as a reminder, adoption is not all sweet and cute.  There is so much loss and confusion.

Thankful for big brothers.

Thankful for big brothers.

We are thankful for friends here who love on our girl.  (the boys opt out of being loved on!) We are enjoying Korea and venturing out more and more. And we bought a car!  We’re adjusting to life here and feeling more at home.  And we bought a table! We look forward to going to the states in December.




Happy fall, everyone, and be sure and hug someone you love today!

Happy Fall from the Garricks!

Happy Fall from the Garricks!

My Firstborn

I enjoy spending time with my oldest baby. He is a blend of both of us with more of his dad’s intellectual abilities and my weird sense of humor. We like the same vines and sit coms while his dad can’t understand how those are funny. So we watch them when it’s just the two of us. He thinks I just like the vidoes but I know how fast time flies.


I guess one blog post a month will have to do. The past few weeks have been busy for all of us. Just your typical school, work, repeat routine with a few adventures thrown in.

The weather is cooler and starting to feel like Fall. My goal is to have a pumpkin in October.  They are not common here but I know they exist! I may have to carve a squash but we will have some sort of jack o lantern next month!

I can now direct the taxis to our apartment and say “right, left, straight, here, there”–along with my other 5 words. Oh, and “a little bit”. This is important when asking for a little bit of food OR knowing a person can speak a little bit of English. Progress!

Sean and I walked to the Seoul Tower last weekend and the weather was beautiful. 

 View on the way up.  

  Us. Seoul Tower

There are a few restaurants at the tower so we had lunch and saw several performances, which is very common in Seoul. There’s always something going on around the city. 

We also went to the Thai Festival in Cheonggyecheon with friends.  Another beautiful day.



We had a picnic at school yesterday, which included dodgeball. The boys were happy. All 3. Julianna just collected as many dodgeballs as she could. It was nice and rainy.

Walking to catch a taxi. (See the yellow lines? They’re very slippery. Take my word for it.)
Today we had church, lunch and Jacob’s first haircut in Korea.


I know I said I would show pictures of our apartment but…. next time! Ok? Kamsahamnida!


It has been almost a month since we moved to Seoul. We have started getting used to using public transportation (it’s really easy and reliable), eaten all kinds of good food, tried (and still trying!) to adjust to the humidity and heat and walking and we’re debating over getting a car. Should we, should we not?? 

Things we like…

Jacob–the orange juice and frozen chocolate covered pineapple pieces


Caleb–trying new food (street food, preferably)

Tonya–walking around the city

Sean–bubble tea

Things that we need a little longer to get used to…

The complicated recycling system, extreme humidity, not speaking Korean. (yet!)

We have started orientation for school–students start next Monday! I’m excited but a little sad to see the summer end. But I’m not going to lie…this summer has not been very restful!;)

This is a super short video of us in Namdaemun, an area of the city with lots of shopping. Stores and street vendors galore. But first, a picture of Sean thinking about how he would rather have a bubble tea than the coffee he just ordered…


Ok, you can’t see a lot past my face– I’ll do better next time. Maybe.  (Disclaimer: the video plays in my edit/preview screen. If it won’t play for you, I’ll post it separately.)   Next update will include a few pictures (or a tour!) of our apartment. Because, apparently, I need more than 3 weeks to set it up! Don’t judge.

All is well with the Garricks-hope the same is true for you.