Birthday Prayer

Sean gave me a few books that I LOVE for my birthday.  I want to share one of the prayers that was in the Celtic Prayers From Jona. This was the one from my actual birthday, and it resonated with me so I wanted to share it.

 O Christ of the road

of the wounded

O Christ of the tears

of the broken

In me and with me

the needs of the world

Grant me my prayers

of loving and hoping

Grant me my prayers

of yearning and healing.

You are behind me and before me, O God. You lay your hand upon me.

(Ps 139:5)

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Holding Space

City life has been quite the adjustment. Seoul is busy, noisy, crowded with parks and green space mixed in. There is always something to do/go see/visit.  I’ve found that I have to guard my time or I am constantly going, going, going. Not unlike life in the states. While living in a new country has been an adjustment, life is the same everywhere. Family, work, rest…it’s always a balancing act. My goal this year, being our first year living as expats, is to soak in as much of the culture as possible while also making sure there is space for rest.

I need to let other people be. Be themselves. Be authentic.  I believe this is referred to as holding space for people. Just letting people be people.  We move forward at our own pace. Let’s hold space for one another.

This Is What I Do

I’m a support teacher so I get to work with students one on one or in very small groups. It’s so fun to help them learn, understand English and believe in themselves. First quarter is a wrap and I’m looking forward to implementing a few more strategies to teach my students. New curriculum, just finished a great conference, ideas rolling around in my brain!

A bonus is discipling middle schoolers! Some don’t profess Christianity but that’s ok. God’s love is for everyone. We have a Week Without Walls coming up soon; I can’t wait to spend some time with the 6th graders away from school. Of course, my own 6th grader will be there, too!

Life in Seoul….still an adjustment but always a adventure! 

   

Anniversary Shoutout

18 years! Babies, moves, jobs, rough patches, high points, more rough years, easy times, questioning, loss, joy, grief, love. Everything at different times and all together. At the same time. Seperately and always together. You can love and be sad, grieve and be joyful, sail through life and wonder why. The human heart is capable of so much. 

Lord, make me an instrument of Thy peace;

where there is hatred, let me sow love;

where there is injury, pardon;

where there is doubt, faith;

where there is despair, hope;

where there is darkness, light;

and where there is sadness, joy.

O Divine Master,

grant that I may not so much seek to be consoled as to console;

to be understood, as to understand;

to be loved, as to love;

for it is in giving that we receive,

it is in pardoning that we are pardoned,

and it is in dying that we are born to eternal life.

Amen.

st. francis of assisi – 13th century

Remind me to always be mindful of my beautiful, complicated life. Happy anniversary, my love.

Fall in Seoul

I love fall! It’s cool in Korea so that means no more tank tops for this southern girl.  But here, that means pull out all of your big coats and bundle up.  It’s just fall, y’all, not winter. The leaves are changing and it’s really beautiful here.  My dear hubby bought me a little pumpkin and my dear friends (here and in Mississippi) bought me some fall decorations. Now I can decorate! Pumpkins, leaves and well, that’s about it. Decorating for fall is not high on Korea’s list. Maybe I could carve a sweet potato.

Hanging pumpkins!

Hanging pumpkins!

My brain is on overload from a conference I’m attending.  Report cards come out soon and we’re about to start the 2nd quarter. This school year is going by fast! Jacob has asked every day what we’re doing for Halloween.  Sad to say, probably a bit fat nothing. I’ll find him some candy so he’ll be happy.  Julianna loves kindergarten but is exhausted everyday. She has more good days than bad but she’s still adjusting.  It’s hard for a little Korean girl! The boys are doing their thing and still enjoying school.  IMG_2039

Here is my challenge to you:  learn about trauma in kids.  Learn about transition with adoption.  Read about how trauma affects learning.  For the sake of all the kids who didn’t get a fair start, please do it.  Nothing hurts a mama’s heart more than when their baby is not understood.  And as a reminder, adoption is not all sweet and cute.  There is so much loss and confusion.

Thankful for big brothers.

Thankful for big brothers.

We are thankful for friends here who love on our girl.  (the boys opt out of being loved on!) We are enjoying Korea and venturing out more and more. And we bought a car!  We’re adjusting to life here and feeling more at home.  And we bought a table! We look forward to going to the states in December.

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Happy fall, everyone, and be sure and hug someone you love today!

Happy Fall from the Garricks!

Happy Fall from the Garricks!